… I really never used to be much for touching. I wasn't against it, really; it just happened so rarely I didn't know what to do with it when it did. But then … stuff happened, and I realised how nice it can be to have a hand to hold or someone to lean against.
I'm not bad at learning people's tells for when touch isn't okay. But I still usually ask first. Surprising people with touch is, uhm ... [ it has ended so badly for her in the past. SO SO SO SO SO SO BADLY. ] Never on my to-do list.
Anyway, uhm. That was a really long-winded way of saying that if you ever want a hug or a handhold or anything, I'm happy to provide.
[ oh yeah, she can absolutely tell. she reached the point where she can and WILL climb wash's armor like he's a jungle gym as long as he isn't wearing his helmet, ok ]
[ maybe she will just leave this wing draped on him. super light. super easily shrugged off. unobtrusive bird hug while they hang out and read. ]
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[ Flips a page ]
… I really never used to be much for touching. I wasn't against it, really; it just happened so rarely I didn't know what to do with it when it did. But then … stuff happened, and I realised how nice it can be to have a hand to hold or someone to lean against.
I'm not bad at learning people's tells for when touch isn't okay. But I still usually ask first. Surprising people with touch is, uhm ... [ it has ended so badly for her in the past. SO SO SO SO SO SO BADLY. ] Never on my to-do list.
Anyway, uhm. That was a really long-winded way of saying that if you ever want a hug or a handhold or anything, I'm happy to provide.
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I don't usually ask. My family usually knows the signs, when I'm for or against or need it.
[Another pause, until he turns the page.]
If I don't say no, then its yes.
Saying no is incredibly easy.
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Thank you.
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[Maybe he can just hide more in his book.]
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[ all she does is gently brush him on the shoulder with a wing ]
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[...also she will Definitely Know that's a metal shell on his back, to be quite honest.]
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[ maybe she will just leave this wing draped on him. super light. super easily shrugged off. unobtrusive bird hug while they hang out and read. ]
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[He's been getting a lot more bird exposure lately, so its not a bad touch at all, so he will accept it and continue his reading.]
[Once he's done with the book, he'll pull out another. The boy has PREPARED this pillowfort.]